I’m Dr. Michelle for webihealth. In the last segment I talked about some of the important personality traits which may indicate healthier characteristics in a possible long term partner. I also suggested to people what might be important questions to ask themselves when considering them for long term relationships.

So, along with having emotional openness, integrity, honesty, and trustworthiness, other important characteristics to look for in a partner are: maturity and responsibility, having a willingness to be open to personal growth, having good self esteem, and a generally positive attitude towards life.  Here are some signs that someone is mature enough to have a healthy relationship: if they can take care of themselves, emotionally, physically, and financially.

Getting into a relationship with someone who is moody, depressed, anxious or creating drama in their lives can be a lot of work. Also if they have a stable social life with good friends and family, chances are they haven’t pushed people away with their drama. And, if you’re healthy, you won’t want to care take someone who is emotionally unstable .

People who are physically healthy usually care about themselves and their appearance which shows self respect.  Finally, someone who can take care of themselves financially is an important thing to look at. They don’t have to be wealthy, but knowing that someone can manage their finances will avoid one of the most common problems that couples have… which is: arguments about money.

Another important trait is finding someone who has a willingness to be open to personal growth. People who are open to learning how to be a better person are more emotionally healthy and they usually aren’t narcissists.

It’s important to be with someone who is okay about exploring what emotional baggage they’re still carrying and are open to self improvement. In the next segment, I’ll tell you why it’s important to be with a partner who has good self esteem, and a more positive attitude towards life.

I’m Dr. Michelle for webihealth.